
Category: Fathers


The Solitary Habit
My father died two months ago. Yesterday, we did a sunrise walk together.

Ashes, Ashes, I Still Fall Down
We are taught that if we work hard enough, we will get over our losses. This has not been the case for many who grieve, including me.

Wait for It — February 2023
“I want something from Daddy that he is not able to give me . . . .”

Years of the Cicadas
For decades, the appearance of the 17-year cicadas was my life metaphor. Then I saw the light.

Love as Strong as An Ox
HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY! What’s it like to make your way through life with someone? Roz Chast has quite a unique … Read More “Love as Strong as An Ox”

My Starter Home — Three Decades Later
Thirty years ago today, I moved into what I assumed would be my “starter” home — an 820-square-foot house where … Read More “My Starter Home — Three Decades Later”

My Absent Father
I wish I could wake up on Monday mornings — the first day of the work week — without my … Read More “My Absent Father”

Dear Dad
“I want something from Daddy that he is not able to give me . . . . It is only … Read More “Dear Dad”

Selling Your Soul
What’s worse? Wealthy parents paying hundreds of thousands of dollars to get their kids into prestigious universities and colleges? Or … Read More “Selling Your Soul”