The Aftermath: No One Stands Alone

In her poem, “Singapore” — about witnessing a woman cleaning an airport toilet — Mary Oliver struggles with how to write about this image which initially disgusts her: “A poem should always have birds in it,/Kingfishers, say, with their bold eyes and gaudy wings./Rivers are pleasant, and of course, trees/ . . . A person wants to stand in a happy place, in a poem.”
Twenty-five years after one of our nation’s worst tragedies, a person wants to stand in a hopeful place, or, at a minimum, in a place that inspires hope. But I don’t think I can. Compared to the sudden, literally out-of-the-blue 9/11 attacks, the profound damage wrought by the current administration moves at a glacial yet steady pace. Nevertheless it is terrorizing so many in this country.
- Because of the current administration’s policies, independent scientific studies and public health reports estimate that specific federal decisions have contributed to tens of thousands if not hundreds of thousands of excess deaths.
- Cuts in global aid alone will risk 14 million more deaths in the next five years.
- The current administration’s economic agenda is costing the U.S. $300 billion per year and millions of jobs.
- Tariffs are costing Americans over $86 billion annually.
- The economic cost of federal program disruptions, workforce cuts, and halted investments have reached roughly $165.6 billion (about $1,028 per taxpayer).
Most of us don’t really notice this destruction because it is not impacting us immediately or even personally. But think of it this way: adding a grain of sand one at a time doesn’t seem to change the pile until the final grain makes the whole thing collapse.
On September 11, the planes hit all of us. Today, the cruel, xenophobic and draconian policies of the current administration are hitting all of us.
No one stands alone.
— On 9/11, we stood with Betty Ong, a flight attendant on American Flight 11.
— On 9/11, we stood with Peter Hanson and his two-year old daughter, Christine, on United Flight 175.
— On 9/11, we stood with Barbara Olson on American Flight 77.
— On 9/11, we stood with Mark Bingham on United Flight 93.
— On January 7, 2026, we stood with Renee Good in Minneapolis.
— On January 24, 2026, we stood with Alex Pretti in Minneapolis.
— On August 31, 2026, we stood with Pierre Damas Bel, a 20-year-old Haitian immigrant who died by suicide in Ohio.
No one stands alone.

All of this notwithstanding, I return to Oliver’s poem, “Singapore” with its beautiful line at the end where Oliver sees in the woman cleaning the airport toilet, “the light that can shine out of a life.” So in that spirit, here is my 100-word submission to the Washington Post when it — for its one-year 9/11 anniversary issue — asked readers what they learned from 9/11. Four thousand submissions were received. Forty were published.
Open hands to all, now more than ever.








7 responses to “9/11 — 25 Year Later, Part III”
Tears. Thank you.
On 9/11, my son, Andy, made a promise to himself that if the country went to war, he would join the Marines after high school. By that time, we were in two wars. He did not go to war right away, but would eventually do three tours in Afghanistan.
Two years after Andy became a Marine, his twin brother, Peter, joined the Army and was deployed to Iraq during the deadliest time of that war.
9/11 changed everything for our family, but we were among the luckiest as our sons returned from those wars. So many didn’t. All the deaths from those wars are related to the tragedy of 9/11.
And here we are again, in another unnecessary war. It is a tragedy.
Beth, much gratitude to your family — particularly your sons — for your service to our country.
And yes, here we are again.
It is the anniversary of 9/11. Soooo hard to write a comment let alone an entire essay. Living with open hands is as good a metaphor as we can ask for. All of the people you named lived with open hands–the least we can do is join them.
This was indeed a difficult post to write, Charlotte. I was torn between staying with 9/11 or moving beyond to the ramifications of terror today.
This day is always sad for me. The First Responders shared photos and transcripts; but mostly they shared their own sadness. It was heavy. It had bulk and geometry, as Mary Karr would say.
An astounding fact that I just read in the New York Times: of the 2,753 people who died at Ground Zero on 9/11, the remains of 1,089 have yet to be identified.
Thank you so much for the three 9/11 remembrances and thoughts you have shared with us. I especially resonate with what you have done in this piece. Yes, we were devastated as a country by 9/11, but yes, also, we are being devastated by this current administration…and the current damage is as devastatingly overwhelming as was the damage 25 years ago. And yet people are lauding the current prez???
Thanks, too, for the reminder of Oliver’s “Singapore.” Always so moved by that!
Thank you, dear Carol. Poetry will help ANYONE through the darkest of times.🙏❤️